The name of the post is kinda weird, right? I thought to make this as the last line but reading the post, you will understand the reason.
Grammar-nazis the heading is not a typo, please move on.
I am in my twenties, so I am not that old, but I think modern day Love is not felt from the heart but calculated with the calculator. I will give you some examples to show why.
The most important question for any boy looking for a long-term commitment or marriage, is how much do you earn? I completely understand that money is one of the most important to live a happy life, oh sorry, luxurious life. People now-a-days are so calculative, that few girls calculate the amount of Alimony she could claim, if she gets divorced LATER. Few Hypocrites (who are against dowry), call it future planning, I call it advanced technique of robbing someone’s hard work and savings.
Another important question, for the girls is, can you complete all the house hold work without any help? It is important for the girls to know household work is important but going completely dependent on her after marriage is what is trending now-a-days. Here’s a confusion is that the wife or long-term relationship that they are looking for or some maid for work.
Next question that comes up is about a girl’s virginity. Are you a virgin? That’s one of the most common question, you girls have come across and I am pretty sure, that you wanted to punch straight in the face. Hymen is one of the most important part in the relationship. Fuck trust and bonding, those are old school. Hymen is the new trend. I don’t know, if I am the only one who finds it super awkward or even uncomfortable to ask someone I love if the hymen is intact or not. I am still trying to figure out what exactly is the connection between a happy relationship and Hymen. If you guys have the answer, please let me know.
Another important question, that comes up is do you have friends who are of opposite sex? If you are a girl/boy and you are friends with opposite sex, you are fucking screwed and you just ruined your chance in getting settled down with a star-fuck. If you have a best friend from opposite sex, then be ready for an FBI/CBI level of investigation with your partner. Previously I was in such a relationship, and I really know how it feels to be in a questionnaire like this. On top of that, the famous dialogues like, if you are not wrong, you don’t need to worry. Each word that comes out of your mouth is used and will be used against you, till the end of the Universe.
Another important question, that comes up is what about working after marriage? Apparently if you are a girl, you will have to leave your career that you built with your hard work and sweat, why? Because you must prove it to your in-laws that choosing you was the right decision and you are ready to sacrifice anything to prove that you are very good with everything, especially with anything where the boy’s family and their comfort is in question.
You may call me a time traveler, who traveled from past, but this is what I think: There is something messed up with our generations relationships and marriages. I am no one to judge, but there are not only room for improvements, but you can say a whole there’s place for whole city of improvements.
If you love someone, s/he may be fat, chubby, huge waist, middle or lower case, what does that have to do anything with your commitment? If someone is super rich today, it is not at all guaranteed that same amount of wealth will be there after 5 years, same goes with all the super hit questions. I know these sounds like a lecture or some lines copied from a platonic love poem, but that’s how life is, and the way I love it.
Feeling frustrated to express your point of view, or have you come across of any such questions, which literally made you think Thanos was right? Comments section is open just for you my friend.